Joanna Goddard and Alex Williams

Are you going to any weddings this summer? When Alex and I got married vii years ago, nosotros luckily didn't have likewise many hitches with our wedding planning. But 1 part threw us for a loop…

The nuptials readings. Did you feel the same? It felt weirdly impossible to discover a romantic reading that didn't either sound corny or pat or end with a depressing twist. Nosotros were big readers — couldn't nosotros come upwards with something? — but somehow we kept hitting walls. Should we simply scrap that role of our anniversary?

Finally, in the eleventh hour, we found 2 poems nosotros really loved.

Start, our friend Kenan read "Our Union" past Hafiz. This cute poem even so breaks my eye:

Our union is like this: You feel cold, and so I reach for a blanket to cover our shivering feet. / A hunger comes into your trunk, so I run to my garden and outset digging potatoes. / Yous asked for a few words of condolement and guidance, and I quickly kneel by your side offering you a whole volume as a gift. / Yous anguish with loneliness one night so much you weep, and I say hither is a rope, necktie it around me, I will be your companion for life.

And, for bit of comic relief, our friend Nora read "I'll Be There For You" by Louise Cuddon:

I'll be there, my darling, through thick and through sparse
When your mind's in a mess and your head'southward in a spin
When your plane's been delayed, and you lot've missed the last train
When life is simply threatening to bulldoze you insane
When your thrilling whodunit has lost its last page
When somebody tells you, you're looking your age
When your coffee's as well absurd, and your vino is too warm
When the forecast said, 'Fine,' only you're out in a tempest
When your quick interruption hotel, turns into a slum
And your holiday photos show only your thumb
When yous park for five minutes in a resident's bay
And render to find yous've been towed away
When the jeans that you bought in hope or in haste
Just stick on your hips and don't accomplish circular your waist
When the food you lot most similar brings you out in red rashes
When equally soon as you lot boot upward the encarmine thing crashes
So my darling, my sweetheart, my dear…
When you break a dominion, when you act the fool
When you've got the flu, when yous're in a stew
When y'all're last in the queue, don't feel blue
'Cause I'thousand telling you, I'll exist there.

Emma Straub wedding

For her lovely minor wedding, writer Emma Straub chose Frank O'Hara'due south "Having a Coke with You," David Sedaris's essay "The End of the Thing," and the last paragraph of Jane Austen's Emma:

The wedding ceremony was very much similar other weddings, where the parties take no gustation for finery or parade; and Mrs. Elton, from the particulars detailed by her husband, thought information technology all extremely shabby, and very inferior to her own. — "Very little white satin, very few lace veils; a about pitiful business! Selina would stare when she heard of it." — But, in spite of these deficiencies, the wishes, the hopes, the conviction, the predictions of the modest band of true friends who witnessed the anniversary, were fully answered in the perfect happiness of the union.

Diana Moss wedding

Says graphic designer Diana Moss: "I found our wedding reading — Marriage by Robert Fulghum — pretty quickly and immediately knew, this is it. There'south something so straightforward most it, much like our relationship. Anton and I are non very mushy or sentimental people, and this was simply the correct mix of touching and true without making me want to, well, gag."

And when I asked her most nuptials readings, the author Una LaMarche told me virtually the all-time 1 she'd ever seen: "The bride and groom met through Craigslist in the early 2000s, and then they had ii friends do a staged reading of their first months of online messages."

What readings would (or did) you have at your wedding? Help out any future couples! I'd dear to hear…

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(Photos from our wedding by Max Wanger. Emma Straub's photograph by Cappy Hotchkiss. Diana Moss's photograph by Honey Made Visible.)

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